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I'm sorry to hear that you are feeling lonely and that your prayers for a mate have not been answered in the way you hoped. It can be difficult to understand why God allows certain things to happen, but it's important to remember that God's ways and thoughts are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9). He loves us and has a plan for our lives, even if we cannot understand it in the moment.

In the meantime, God promises to never leave us or forsake us (Hebrews 13:5), and to be our comfort and our very present help in times of trouble (Psalm 46:1). Lean on Him and trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).

Consider using your singleness to serve others and to grow closer to God. Jesus says that it is more blessed to give than to receive (Acts 20:35), and serving others can bring great joy and fulfillment to our lives. The Bible also says that it is not good for a person to be alone (Genesis 2:18), so consider reaching out to friends and family and building relationships with others who can support and encourage you.

Remember that our ultimate hope and reward is in heaven, where there will be no more loneliness or pain (Revelation 21:4). Keep your heart and mind fixed on Him and His promises, and trust that He has a good plan for you.dd an answer to this item.

     Marrying a younger man can be a rewarding and fulfilling experience, but it may also come with its own set of challenges. Here are a few things to keep in mind:

1. Age gap: Be prepared for others to question the age difference between you and your partner. Be confident in your relationship and don't let others' opinions affect you.
2. Different life experiences: Your partner may have different life experiences and perspectives due to their age, which can lead to different ways of thinking and problem-solving. It's important to approach these differences with open-mindedness and respect.
3. Different priorities: As you get older, your priorities may change, and your partner may be at a different stage in their life. It's important to discuss these differences and find ways to accommodate each other's needs.
4. Consider your future: Consider the potential long-term implications of the age difference, such as retirement and caring for each other in old age.
5. Focus on love: Ultimately, the most important thing is your love and commitment to each other. Age should not be a barrier to a happy and successful marriage. 
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     Take it from me, marrying a younger man can be a unique and exciting journey, and as long as you approach it with love, understanding, and open-mindedness, it can be a rewarding experience.

I learned how to create and edit audiobooks with God and Google, seriously. The Lord reminded me that the local university had a recording and engineering program. I contacted the head of the program and asked if they had a student that knew how to record and format files for ACX. (ACX is the platform used to sell on Amazon). He put out the request to his students.  Jacob Lingley answered the call.  

The first step is to create a script.  Write the opening and closing credits and describe pages that contain QR codes and pictures. (I missed one change in my book.)  

We recorded the book in one of the studios at the university. I thought it would take three hours to record the book, but I did not consider that when reading aloud, you slow down the pace.  ACX recommends recording the file in mono. Allot twice as much time as it takes to silently read the book.

I used  Audacity, a free software, to edit the files to conform to the ACX standards. Download the ACX checker. The De-Esser and the De-clicker add-ons were also very useful.   FYI - Check out the YouTube videos on the topic.

Yes, I see five phases: Prospecting, Connecting, Qualifying, Coupling, and Committing. Download my FREE infographic, Christian Phases for more information.